The hexagram "Sui" means "The Sequel." You may be in the stronger position, used to being top dog, but if you want to lead you must learn to follow. Do not insist on being the one who sets the agenda and makes the decisions. Rather, be prepared to take a backseat and let someone else call the shots. Using seduction or trickery to get your way will meet with resistance. By being adaptable and considering the needs of others you will gain their trust. Once they know you will take them in the right direction, then they will follow you.